Coach Ellie

Love addiction withdrawal takes months to get through. In the mean time you feel heavy, and beaten down — like there is a tractor parked on your chest. But you can lift this miserable feeling. I promise.

What if you are one of the unlucky ones who never finds true love? Is it a fate worse than death itself? Or could it just be the wrong question?

Everyone agrees, recovering from any addiction is a good thing. But not all of us agree on how or what to call ourselves once we start the recovery journey. Me? I’m sticking with “ADDICT”, no matter how strong my recovery. Here’s why:

You know it’s bad. You know you can’t take it anymore. Not only that, but you truly WANT to leave but, there is nowhere for you to go. What can you do today to start making this a reality.

“HOW can you possibly stay with THAT person!?” people ask you directly and not so directly. Until you have experienced it yourself, it can totally be confusing. And then, even for the person who can’t leave, it’s confusing. Let’s dive in!

Withdrawal. 🙁 Let’s get you feeling better, today!

After too many messed up dates, relationships and situation-ships you may decide to give up. But don’t! You just need to get to know yourself better. Yes, it’s that simple (but it does take effort).

Love addiction is a pretty intense topic. It’s filled with issues surrounding childhood trauma and outdated coping skills, yada yada. But if we dig in and understand this mess, we can find a way forward. Ah sweet relief!

Break-ups SUCK! But there is a delightful treat in store if you are willing to do the work. You won’t always feel this bad. I promise. As long as you ATONE.

Black and white thinking feels good until it doesn’t. Don’t let it ruin what could otherwise be excellent relationships. There is another way, called the gray!